Comments on: 5 reasons why people remain in a bruised and battered relationship http://www.peleodiase.com/abusive-relationship maximising potentials in dating, relationships and marriages Sat, 13 Feb 2010 09:48:08 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: ajomabi oride http://www.peleodiase.com/abusive-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-92 ajomabi oride Sat, 12 Jan 2008 13:24:23 +0000 http://www.peleodiase.com/abusive-relationship#comment-92 I believe most people remain in bruised and battered relationships because they hope that things may turn around sometimes in the future. The christian couple is enjoined not to divorce, therefore they get stucked to the relationship whether it seems to be working or not; since they they took a vow of 'for better, for worse'. As for me, i reason with the fact that there is hardly anything impossible with men, as long as they are determined. Therfore, i believe that couples have the ability to restore harmony in the home if they allow God to be in control of their individual lives. Divorce is not good for the society, and God Himself says that He hates it; that is the reason couples must ensure that their relationship are turned from an insipid water into a sweet wine as Jesus did in the marriage feast at Cana. He is the one that can bring sweetness into a marriage if both couples are obedient to Him. I believe most people remain in bruised and battered relationships because they hope that things may turn around sometimes in the future. The christian couple is enjoined not to divorce, therefore they get stucked to the relationship whether it seems to be working or not; since they they took a vow of ‘for better, for worse’.

As for me, i reason with the fact that there is hardly anything impossible with men, as long as they are determined. Therfore, i believe that couples have the ability to restore harmony in the home if they allow God to be in control of their individual lives. Divorce is not good for the society, and God Himself says that He hates it; that is the reason couples must ensure that their relationship are turned from an insipid water into a sweet wine as Jesus did in the marriage feast at Cana.

He is the one that can bring sweetness into a marriage if both couples are obedient to Him.

]]> By: traceychiwuzie http://www.peleodiase.com/abusive-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-48 traceychiwuzie Fri, 28 Dec 2007 09:38:38 +0000 http://www.peleodiase.com/abusive-relationship#comment-48 I dont necessarily think 'low self esteem' is a major reason why the woman stays. Women tend to be stubborn & believe they can change men. I think some poor women hang on to good times they have shared with the man and hope things will improve. Also in the mans case [speaking from experience], its a case of trying to prove 'hes a man' , 'he is in control of the relationship' & 'he wears the trousers'...... I dont necessarily think ‘low self esteem’ is a major reason why the woman stays. Women tend to be stubborn & believe they can change men. I think some poor women hang on to good times they have shared with the man and hope things will improve.
Also in the mans case [speaking from experience], its a case of trying to prove ‘hes a man’ , ‘he is in control of the relationship’ & ‘he wears the trousers’……

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