Author Archives: Pele Odiase

About Pele Odiase

Pele Odiase is a web designer and programmer. He loves photography and plays the keyboard for his local church. His experience of the lifestyle and morals practiced in the UK motivated him to start his web log. He is the webmaster of Ask Dr. P - a website dedicated to sharing candid and virtuous view that would enable individuals and families maximise their potentials in relationships and finances.

My spouse, my friend

I suppose the ideal situation is for one to be able to say ‘ I married my best friend’ or at least ‘I married my friend’. When the chips are down, you’ll need a friend to stand by you, to … Continue reading

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Christians can do it better

Marriage is consummated usually on the wedding night when the man knows his wife just as Adam knew Eve and brought fought Cain. Everything God created was good; in fact all things created were very good including sex. Sex is … Continue reading

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3 Ways to Keep the Love Aflame: A Husband’s Perspective

Lighting a unity candle is sometimes incorporated in wedding ceremonies to symbolise two live coming together as one.Ephesians 5:31For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall … Continue reading

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Honouring parents in marriage

The first commandment given by God with a promise is that we should honour our parents so that our days may be long, regardless of what kind of parent one may have had. They may not have been the best … Continue reading

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A New Dawn in History

Today marks a historic landmark in our generation, we are privileged to live and see the power of unity and the determination for change. The nature and outcome of the US 2008 election has proved beyond any doubts, for those … Continue reading

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Should married women go clubbing

One question asked which I think would interest a hand full of people is, should married women go clubbing? Though the question refers particularly to women, I think the same can be asked on married men. Is there a straight … Continue reading

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Youths and knife crimes – Help

It is very sad, disheartening, horrendous and heart breaking to see the increase in knife crimes and deaths of teenagers in our society today. Young lives being wasted just like that. The pain and trauma families that have lost loved … Continue reading

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The blessings of parents and family in marriage

The first commandment given by God with a promise is that we should honour our parents so that our days may be long, regardless of what kind of parent one may have had. They may not have been the best … Continue reading

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Dynamics of friends and friendships in Marriage

The dictionary defines a friend as a close or intimate acquaintance, well-wisher or supporter. We make friends in school, places of work and worship, social gatherings etc. Some friends we out grow, some we lose contact with, some become close … Continue reading

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Did your pants fall off

It doesn’t just happen, it starts with lust then a thought before it manifests into full blown romp and ecstasy. It would be a miracle for you pants to fall off all of a sudden and you find yourself lying … Continue reading

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