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Youths and knife crimes - Help

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

If you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting!It is very sad, disheartening, horrendous and heart breaking to see the increase in knife crimes and deaths of teenagers in our society today. Young lives being wasted just like that. The pain and trauma families that have lost loved [...]

Why the tears and anger?

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

Why do women cry and men get angry all the time? Cars have dashboards while other pieces of equipment have indicators that tell the user something about an equipment. They show the status of a device, give instructions or warn of impending danger. These indicators draw the user’s attention to the situation, exceptthe user intentional [...]

Dealing with peer pressure

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

At different stages in our journey through life we  face pressures  from parents, peers, work or family. How do you deal with peer pressure? Our ability to deal with peer pressure depends on our values, character, vision and life ambitions.
While parents have the privilege to guide and steer their children in the [...]

The fruits of the spirit - 3

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

Walking in the Spirit means bearing fruits of the Holy Spirit. The fruit of the Spirit are clearly spelled out in the above scripture and it will be pertinent for us to study each fruit vis-a-vis their antonyms so we may have a better understanding. This is the final part of a three-part study series on the [...]

The fruits of the spirit - 2

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

Walking in the Spirit means bearing fruits of the Holy Spirit. The fruit of the Spirit are clearly spelled out in the above scripture and it will be pertinent for us to study each fruit vis-a-vis their antonyms so we may have a better understanding. This is part two a a three-part study series on [...]

The fruits of the spirit - 1

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

What are the fruits of the spirit? The bible makes us understand that fresh water and salt water cannot flow from the same spring, so also would not the fruit of the Spirit and the fruit of the flesh co-habit. We are either living by the Spirit or by the flesh. The Spirit does not [...]

Numbers don’t add up in love, dating and relationships

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

How you ever told yourself you wanted to get married at a certain age or you want to have your kids before your thirties. Perhaps you’ve also said you wanted a younger or older wife or husband. Most times numbers don’t add up in matters like this. Although I do not see anything wrong [...]

Christianity and clubbing, do they go together?

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

Join the forum discussion on this postSomeone asked if Christianity and clubbing go together. What do you think? Is is OK for a Christian to go clubbing, if yes, are there any no go areas and if no why not?
Some people associate clubbing with binge drinking, one night stands, violence and public nudity while [...]

Challenges of being a man and a man of God

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

One phrase that spoke volumes to me was spoken by Bishop T.D. Jakes. He said in his book  He-Motions: Even Strong Men Struggle (also in CD) that “Every boy needs a father, and a man does too”. It gave me the opportunity to reflect and think about my childhood, growing up into life, finding [...]

Losing weight: thinking of casting out calories

Dating relationships, marriage love and family

In hindsight, I appreciate the physical training I once detested in military school. We rose up early everyday to the sound of the bugle as the morning reveille played. If that didn’t wake you up, the shouts of the Regimental Sergeant Major (RSM) would. The first hour of the day was spent road running and [...]

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