I suppose the ideal situation is for one to be able to say ‘ I married my best friend’ or at least ‘I married my friend’. When the chips are down, you’ll need a friend to stand by you, to confide in and comfort you. Love is important in any dating or marriage relationship, however it [...]
Posts under ‘Dating’
Did your pants fall off
It doesn’t just happen, it starts with lust then a thought before it manifests into full blown romp and ecstasy. It would be a miracle for you pants to fall off all of a sudden and you find yourself lying face up, face down or sideways left right and centre with clothes scattered all over [...]
Knocked down but not out
The last round of the boxing bout seemed to last forever. I thought it would never come to an end. My best effort got me a silver medal but the blows I endured were worth much more than that. The three rounds of three minutes required over 6 months training, exercise, endurance runs and weight [...]
Divorce or break-up, which to choose?
Would you prefer to marry someone you definitely know isn’t right for you and later get a divorce, or break up the relationship before marriage? Regardless of how hard it may be, I know which one I would prefer, do you? The effect of a divorce can be enormous, especially when there are kids involved.
Discerning the flower of your age
Is there a right time or age to get married? How do I know when the time is right? These are some of the questions a number of people may be asking, men and women alike. A straight answer could be, “if you’re asking these questions then you are not ready to get married!” While [...]
Numbers don’t add up in love, dating and relationships
How you ever told yourself you wanted to get married at a certain age or you want to have your kids before your thirties. Perhaps you’ve also said you wanted a younger or older wife or husband. Most times numbers don’t add up in matters like this. Although I do not see anything wrong in [...]
Being unequally yoked
In the post 2 Factors to consider when building a strong and dynamic dating relationship we examined two factors to consider when building a dynamic relationship. Being of like-minded in faith is very crucial for the believer. Both parties need to be singing the same song from the same hymn sheet otherwise there is bound [...]
What to look for in the girl you are dating
This is a follow up to What to look for in the guy you are dating. Ideally the man should do the finding while the girl should position herself where she can be found. You seem to have found the girl, established contact and agreed to go out on a date, and the question may [...]
What to look for in the guy you are dating
Your watch is on deck and there is this guy you are going out with. He swept you off your feet the first time you saw him. He is so smooth, has sweet lips and a firm butt. He also dresses well, makes you laugh and even buys you lunch. He seems like the perfect [...]
A Candid Look at Breaking Up
Breaking up a relationship because you found someone else more attractive isn’t the right thing to do. There would always be someone more beautiful or handsome than you date. If you think otherwise, would it mean that you would always break up and hook up with the next handsome or beautiful person? Every relationship should [...]
