With marriage comes responsibility, one of which is to take care and provide for the home which requires means. In my opinion, the man should have the means of taking care of himself and the wife comfortably before getting into marriage.

There is a legal age one must attain before getting married. This age differ from place to place. Also, it takes a man, not a boy, to get married which implies maturity. Maturity isn’t a function of age. One should be matured both physically and spiritually with the means to fend for the family. The same applies to women. Once they have reached the ‘flower of their age’ as the bible puts it they can marry.

does it really take one to be rich before he/she can begin to think of marrige? and at what age do you really suggest one(male/female) to get marriage or does marrige has a definite age? thanks.

Every relationship is unique though the same principles can be applied to establish a firm foundation on which to build holy matrimony. The big question I need to ask is why her parents are not in support of the marriage?