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When is the Right Time to Divorce – Part 1

Pele Odiase — Sun, 06 Feb 2022 16:06:59 +0000

The times we spent together were wonderful and heavenly, I looked forward to being with him each passing day just to stare into his beautiful eyes, his smiles send shivers down my spine. A few months went by and then it happened! I literally froze when he went down on his knees and popped the [...]

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The Marriage Bed in the Other Room – Honourable and Undefiled

Pele Odiase — Thu, 20 Oct 2016 12:11:09 +0000

The content elaborates on the significance of the "Other Room," representing the marital bedroom, emphasizing its role as a private space for resolving issues and nurturing intimacy. It discusses the importance of cleanliness, privacy, pleasantness, vulnerability, and mutual care in maintaining a healthy marriage, urging couples to revitalize their connection.

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What Do You See When You Look?

Pele Odiase — Sat, 08 Oct 2016 20:32:15 +0000

To the ordinary, he was just another man with incredibly great strength which no one could fathom. To the hopeful, he was revered and his strength earned him a place as a judge to rule over his people. His judgement however became questionable when he saw what he wanted, wanted what he saw, got what [...]

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My Spouse, My Friend

Pele Odiase — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 19:39:47 +0000

Proverbs 18:24 – A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother The ideal situation is for a spouse to confidently say ‘ I married my best friend’ or at least ‘I married my friend’. When the chips are down, you’ll need a friend [...]

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Christians Can Do It Better

Pele Odiase — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 19:46:10 +0000

Marriage is consummated usually on the wedding night when the man knows his wife just as Adam knew Eve and brought fought Cain. Everything God created was good, in fact all things created were very good including sex. Sex is meant to be pleasurable and enjoyed by married couples within the confines of marriage, but [...]

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3 Ways to Keep the Love Aflame: A Husband’s Perspective

Pele Odiase — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 19:53:40 +0000

Lighting a unity candle is sometimes incorporated in wedding ceremonies to symbolize two live coming together as one. In the early days, the love between the husband and wife radiates but after a while it begins to dwindle with each argument, misunderstanding and challenge that life brings. Marriages don’t just pack up all of a [...]

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Honouring Parents in Marriage

Pele Odiase — Wed, 05 Nov 2008 19:50:29 +0000

The biblical commandment to honor parents emphasizes that respect is essential, despite familial challenges. Couples must prioritize their marriage while maintaining respect for parents. Effective communication and unity are crucial in addressing family dynamics. Ultimately, the marital bond should take precedence, fostering a healthy and flourishing relationship.

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Dynamics of Friends and Friendships in Marriage

Pele Odiase — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 19:47:50 +0000

The dictionary defines a friend as a close or intimate acquaintance, well-wisher or supporter. We make friends in school, places of work and worship, social gatherings etc. Some friends we outgrow, some we lose contact with, some become close rivals and sworn enemies while there are the few that the bible refers to as friends [...]

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Before You Say “I Do”: A Hard Truth About Walking Away

Pele Odiase — Thu, 01 May 2008 21:36:10 +0000

A Tough but Necessary Question Would you rather marry someone you know is not right for you and later face the pain of divorce, or make the difficult decision to walk away before the wedding day? It is not an easy choice, but it is one that deserves deep thought. As painful as it may [...]

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Discerning the Flower of Your Age

Pele Odiase — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 21:36:55 +0000

Is there a right time or age to get married? How do I know when the time is right? These are a couple of questions a number of people may be asking, men and women alike. A straight answer could be, “if you’re asking these questions then you are probably not ready for marriage!” While [...]

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