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All men are dogs, they are all only after one thing. Have you heard anyone make this statement? If you haven’t, I have heard women make this statements and statements similar to this. Most of these women have either been in terrible marriages, sexually abused or are currently dating fools. Fools Dating, Dating Fools

While there may cogent reasons behind these statements, they are far from the truth. From their experiences, they have come to the conclusion that men are sexually indiscriminate and insensitive to their feelings after having had sex with them. Read the rest of this entry »

This is the concluding part of a 5-part response centered around deciding who to marry. The author highlighted the characteristics to look for in a man as well as those to be possessed by the woman to be a suitable help mete.

Citing true life examples, the author explained the need to choose wisely based on one’s emotions and intellect but guided by the bible. This is a must read for the single, engage and the married. Read the rest of this entry »

Apart from carefully considering the characteristics of the men you intend to choose from, when choosing a spouse, you also need to re-examine yourself to see if you would be a suitable wife.

In this part, the author suggests questions to be asked, answers of which would determine if the marriage would stand the test of time. Read the rest of this entry »

The need to seek sound advice from mentors and friends with godly insights and exemplary marriages cannot be overemphasized when deciding who to marry.

Though true love should be the motivating factor with trust as the bedrock, you need to consider other aspects as well in order to make a well informed decision that would ensure a lasting marriage.

This is a part 3 of a 5-part series. Continuation from: Who should I marry? Two men seeking my hand in marriage – part 2. Read the rest of this entry »

Deciding who to marry isn’t a trivial decison to make. Your decision would have a lasting impact on your life and affect your course of destiny and future generations.

It is important that this decision is taken after carefully thought and considerations.

This is part 2 of a 5-part series, a follow up to Who should I marry? Please help me decide – part 1 Read the rest of this entry »

While some women pray daily for God to bring their dream husbands their way, others are at a cross road having to decide who to marry from a handful of suitors. In a situation whereby you are torn between two suitors who are asking for your hand in marriage, how do you make that vital decision that would change the cause of your life and destiny?

This 5-part series is a response by the author to a request made by a woman in this situation. She had asked for his adviceto help her choose between two men that had proposed to her. The content is true but the names and references to places have been changed for privacy. Read the rest of this entry »

Not again! You’ve just broken up from another horrible relationship that left you bruised and battered. You  can’t seem to get a grip of your emotions anymore. The guy you trusted and believed in turned out to be a ferocious beast with the ultimate desire to get under your skirts.

Now things are very clear and the warnings you ignored from friends begin to taunt you. Perhaps you should have been more open to listen to friends and siblings. But how could you, you were in love. He swept you off you feet with his charms and sweet talk. He was the shoulder to lean on after your previous boyfriend jilted you. He listened to every word you spoke and always said the right words. He wasn’t anything like the last two relationships you’ve had. But why does it keep happening to me. I thought that was the last time. Read the rest of this entry »

While some people maintain a dating relationship solely for companionship and sex, others seek genuine love and intimacy that would eventually lead into marriage. If you fall in the former school of thought, the question whether speaking and kissing in tongues go together would not arise at all. But if you are in the later and have noble intentions while dating, it is imperative that you establish clear boundaries with regards to getting turned on and being sexually aroused. Read the rest of this entry »

Have you ever been in tough times, be it in business, school, work or general life issues. Have you ever asked the question why me, has it ever bothered you how some people make it and you always hit the wall, doors are always shut in your face and your ideas never go any further than your nose? Read the rest of this entry »

Dating is regarded as a series of engagements to go out socially with another person most often out of romantic interest. Do you know any one dating at the moment? Probably this definition would bring a few people you know into focus.

Ideally people who are of age, mature and seeking a lasting relationship, that would eventually lead to marriage, start the process by dating a spouse material. But what do we have in our society today? The whole shabang! Anyone and everyone seem to be dating regardless of age and maturity.

From the world’s point of view, dating is just a prelude to sex, heart breaks, depression and more sex. Read the rest of this entry »