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Making an insurance claim can be a very boring, upsetting and really bitter thing to do. There is no easy way to make a claim, I know many companies out there will give you promises that they can deal with your claims hassle free but be warned, it is never that easy.

Am I discouraging you from making a claim, no, I am actually opening your eyes to the truth. Everyone will want to get the very best service, get their property replaced speedily and have it all done hassle free but that is easier thought and imagined than done. There is no quick fix claims solution as each claim is unique, each insurer has a set process and every process is different. Read the rest of this entry »

Honesty is the best policy in any relationship and should be its bedrock; there shouldn’t be any form of deception or plan to deceive especially in marriage. Sometimes things happen to us that are beyond our control and sometimes we ask God ‘Why Me?’ Other events occur in our lives as a direct or indirect result of our decisions or foolishness.

In as much as God forgives our sins and remembers them not, they still linger in our minds and affect our current circumstances, how we view ourselves, our confidence and how we trust other people. Read the rest of this entry »

There are websites that provide free blogs for beginners such as Google’s blogger, wordpress.com etc. These blogs are automatically set up for you and you have no control over the source code and header tags. To optimize and monetize your blog you would need free access to these areas of your web blog. Read the rest of this entry »

A blog simply put is a web diary where articles and comments are posted. It is a handy means of building a web community which can be monetized to generate passive income to the blogger (the individual that owns and maintains the blog). Setting up and running a blog isn’t rocket science for the web savvy when you know what to do and how to go about it. It is relatively easy to set up a blog, in a matter of fact it can be done in minutes. Read the rest of this entry »

“Honest is the best policy” as often quoted is definitely the motto to live and abide by in relationships. Why some people may justify the need to tell lies in certain situations, there is no justification to tell a lie. As we perfect holiness in the fear of God we should not consciously set out to deceive or mislead others especially in relationships and in marriage. Read the rest of this entry »

…continued from He loves me, he loves me not - pt.1…

Driving home that night, Alicia’s vision was blurred with hot tears. She had cried a bit in the kitchen, then stopped. Packed up the rest of the food in Tupperware bowls, and made coffee for Parker and their guests. When she came into the den, their friends looked at her in concern but said nothing. Parker paid some compliment about her being the best thing that had ever happened to him; she heard nothing, she wasn’t listening. Two hours later, after they had said goodbye to their friends, Parker hugs her and says thank you. Read the rest of this entry »

Puberty defined in The Penguin Encyclopedia is ‘the period of change from childhood to adulthood characterized by the attainment of sexual maturity and full reproductive capacity’. It begins earlier in girls (age 11) than in boys (about age 13) and lasts between 3 – 5 years.

At this stage it is very crucial that parents educate their children and make them understand the physiological changes taking place and how to deal with it. For a guy the sex drive and the urgent urge to merge begins and if not controlled and channeled may lead them astray. Read the rest of this entry »

Examination is a way of testing students and probably to ascertain that knowledge passed by teachers have been acquired by students. It may not be the best way to achieve the objective, but you can’t avoid them. This exam period is often tensed and dreaded by students who are ill prepared and have waited to the last couple to weeks to prepare.

The best time to prepare for an exam is not when the exam time table is out but from the very first day lectures or classes begin. I have been through the academic institutions from nursery to doctorate degree and have a fair bit of experience in the academic field, so much so I feel I have had enough for one life time. Read the rest of this entry »

When Alicia met Parker, she felt life could finally have some meaning. She had always been in relationships where she was in control. She was in control of her feelings, in control of how they treated her, in control of the relationships basically. She knew what she wanted and would never settle for less; hence she also had so many break ups to her name. She didn’t think this was a problem cause she felt it was better to be alone than unhappy. Read the rest of this entry »

God created man and said everything was good. His command to man was to replenish the earth and have dominion over all creation. Marriage was instituted by God when he created Eve out of Adam and brought her to him in the Garden of Eden.

Procreation and replenishment of the earth implies sex and intimacy. The one act that unites the man and woman in the highest experience of pleasure. This act symbolizes the covenant we have with God which requires the shedding of blood when the hymen is broken. God made a covenant with man sealed in blood by Christ dying and shedding his blood. No wonder, the devil has and is desecrating the beauty of sex and intimacy. Read the rest of this entry »