Author: Pele Odiase

Pele began his education in Nigeria before moving to the UK for a masters degree and subsequently a PhD in computer science. The sharp contrast in life and morals in the UK motivated him to start his blog, a website dedicated to sharing candid and virtuous views to enable individuals and families maximize their potentials in life, relationships and finances.

Your watch is on deck and there is this guy you are going out with. He swept you off your feet the first time you saw him. He is so smooth, has sweet lips and a firm butt. He also dresses well, makes you laugh and even buys you lunch. He seems like the perfect gentleman and you couldn’t hesitate to say yes the first time he asked you out for a date. What more can a woman want in a man, you asked? You’re so blown away that you can’t wait for him to pop the question

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Breaking up a relationship because you found someone else more attractive isn’t the right thing to do. There would always be someone more beautiful or handsome than you date. If you think otherwise, would it mean that you would always break up and hook up with the next handsome or beautiful person? Every relationship should be judged on its own merits based on preset criteria.

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Your parents are devout Christians, dedicated and pious. They are well respected in the community, in church and amongst friends. Perhaps they are leaders in church and sometimes are given the opportunity to preach the word. In the eyes of everyone they are the perfect family, happily married with children, and you happen to be one of them. They played their roles as good parents, they taught their kids the bible and lived their lives by example. But you were not having any of it, hidden from the eyes of your parents you lived a rebellious life. You couldn’t wait…

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In hindsight, I now appreciate the physical training I once detested in military school. We rose up early everyday to the sound of the bugle as the morning reveille played. If that didn’t wake you up, the shouts of the Regimental Sergeant Major (RSM) would. The first hour of the day was spent road running and exercising. How could anyone be overweight? Being overweight was a physical indication that the RSM was not working hard. Even the track gurus hated the morning physical training. If it was optional I bet no one would turn up. But that was the routine.

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Dating is an essential phase when preparing for married life. It affords you the opportunity to find out more about yourself and your date. Dating has a purpose and whether you achieve this purpose depends on how well the activities and affairs of the dating relationship were carried out. Matters of the heart are sometimes difficult to keep in check especially when in love. However, it is necessary that the dating experience is evaluated periodically, as an individually and as a couple. There are two essential factors that would help keep both parties in the dating relationship in focused and…

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People often wonder and ask when the right time to enter into a dating relationship is. Are you one of them or are you already in a relationship? Is there a particular age at which you are regarded qualified to date? Are there things to consider before asking that girl of your dreams out or is this the right time to say yes to that hunk you so much adore?

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Are you a teenager or do you have teenage children, relatives or friends? This age group is significant in the growth and development process of an individual. At this stage in life, puberty is experienced and ones character is either made or broken. There are folks that dread children in this age group because of the crimes they commit, disrespect to elders, disruption and destruction of public services, shop lifting, sexual perversions and hyper activity, drug addiction and the high rates of truancy. In this article the author talks about the significance of this age bracket and the need for…

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